我的父亲|My father
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今年父亲节,那天早上我刚上班的时候打了个电话给我父亲,还没等开口问好,父亲就问我吃过早饭没,接着问我这下雨天有没有到村里看火,我在电话这头听着,嗯了一声,然后说节日快乐。父亲很客气说了句谢谢,让我在这边多注意身体,然后电话挂掉。我

今年父亲节,那天早上我刚上班的时候打了个电话给我父亲,还没等开口问好,父亲就问我吃过早饭没,接着问我这下雨天有没有到村里看火,我在电话这头听着,嗯了一声,然后说节日快乐。父亲很客气说了句谢谢,让我在这边多注意身体,然后电话挂掉。我呆呆的站在一旁,下雨声在耳边滴答滴答,仿佛看见小时候父亲骑着自行车带着我穿梭在泥泞的小路上。

This year, on father's day, I called my father when I was just at work that morning. Before I could say hello, my father asked me if I had breakfast. Then he asked me if I had seen the fire in the village on rainy days. I listened to him on the phone, hum, and said happy holidays. My father said thank you very politely. He asked me to pay more attention to my health here and then hung up the phone. I stood in a daze, the sound of rain ticking in my ear, as if I saw my father riding a bicycle with me on the muddy path when I was a child.

 

我父亲这人喜欢碎碎念,大概因为到了知天命的年纪,所以很多事情喜欢重复,我却讨厌这样他。每当他对我碎碎念让我尽早成家,我却不再理会他,到外面或者躲在自己的房间里,这样久了,与他的交流也少了,距离也就渐渐地疏远了。

My father likes to read in pieces. Probably because he is old enough to know fate, he likes to repeat many things, but I hate him. Every time he breaks his mind to me and makes me start a family as soon as possible, but I don't pay any attention to him, go outside or hide in my own room. After such a long time, I have less communication with him, and the distance is gradually alienated.

 

父亲排行老二,有一个哥哥,一个弟弟,一个妹妹,他是个老实巴交的农民,没什么才能,不会欣赏音乐,不会写自己的名字,没到电影院看过电影,却因为有他,整个家才会过的舒适、安稳。这些年父亲开始渐渐迷上新闻,关注国家大事起来,我想或许是因为我工作的原因吧。

My father is the second one. He has a brother, a younger brother and a younger sister. He is an honest farmer. He has no talent, can't enjoy music, can't write his own name, can't see a movie in the cinema, but because of him, the whole family will be comfortable and stable. Over the years, my father has gradually become obsessed with news and national affairs. I think it's probably because of my work.

 

小时候,每当父亲从外地打工回来,都会欢喜的抱着我,用胡渣扎我的脸,我都会不耐烦地闪躲开来,他见我这样,他就从包里拿出零食,逗我开心。我渐渐长大了,被胡渣的次数少了,零食却一次都没少过。

When I was a child, whenever my father came back from working in other places, he would hold me happily and stab me in the face with Hu dregs. I would run away impatiently. When he saw me like this, he would take out snacks from his bag and make me happy. I'm growing up. I've got less Hu dregs, but I've never had less snacks.

 

父亲总对我说,他这一辈子没多大本事,希望我能有出息,将来的日子才能够好过,也要学会吃苦。以前上学时总不能理解他的这些大道理,现在离开家,走上工作岗位,才越发地明白这些道理的珍贵。

My father always told me that he didn't have much ability in his life. I hope I can have a good future, so that I can live a better life in the future and learn to bear hardships. Before I went to school, I couldn't understand these great truths. Now I have to leave home and go to work to understand the value of these truths.

 

父亲至今打过我一次,那是记忆里最难忘的一次,那天阳光炙热,我在地里玩耍,不知怎么惹了正在忙碌的父亲,他就把我抱起,折了根树枝,带到家中狠狠地抽了一顿。母亲见父亲打我,跟父亲大吵一架,说我还小,怎么忍心下手呢。现在回想起来,好像只能记得那根被打断了的树枝,还有站在阳光下的父亲的影子。也许是见我那次的挨打哭泣的样子心疼,父亲好像有所“领悟”,自那以后,从来没曾再打过我,反而对我溺爱了不少。

My father has beaten me once, which is the most unforgettable one in my memory. That day, the sun was hot, and I played in the ground. Somehow, he got in the way of my busy father, so he picked me up, folded a branch, and took me home to smoke hard. My mother saw my father beat me and had a big fight with him. She said that I was still young. How could I bear to start. In retrospect, I can only remember the broken branch and the shadow of my father standing in the sun. Maybe my father felt hurt when I was beaten and cried. He seemed to have some "understanding". Since then, he has never beaten me again, but he doted on me a lot.

 

父亲经常教导我,要我做一个正直的人,要有血有肉,要学会如何做人,然后再学会做事情。

My father often taught me to be a man of integrity, to have flesh and blood, to learn how to be a man, and then to learn to do things.

 

每次回家,父亲都很期待,也每次都会问我钱够不够用的,不够的话,都会主动给我,我说我都已经工作了,不会再要钱了。他就把刚给我的钱拿回去,说下回不够再给你,在外千万别委屈自己。

Every time I go home, my father is looking forward to it. Every time, he will ask me if the money is enough. If it is not enough, he will give it to me on his own initiative. I said that I have worked and will not ask for any more money. He will take back the money he just gave me and say that he will give it to you if it is not enough next time. Don't aggrieve yourself outside.

 

这些年,年轮在父亲的脸上刻上了皱纹,头发也夹杂着越来越多的白发了。买给父亲的剃须刀,他不怎么舍得用,小心翼翼地把它保护的很好。

Over the years, the rings have wrinkled his father's face and his hair has become more and more gray. The razor he bought for his father was not willing to use. He carefully protected it.

 

都说儿行千里母担忧,父亲也会担忧,只不过他的表现方式没有母亲来的柔软罢了,却占着同样的份量。母爱如水,给你最温柔的关怀,父爱如山,给你最坚强的依靠。

It's said that the mother is worried, and the father is worried, but his performance is not as soft as that of the mother, but it accounts for the same weight. Mother's love is like water, giving you the most gentle care, father's love is like a mountain, giving you the strongest dependence.